In Her Own Words
About her
Life is for living. Achieving something everyday day, no matter what is a mini win. I love wins!l, even if it’s a tasty pasta dish to treat myself at end of the day or a fabulous meal for a dinner party and entertaining friends. A win is a win.
Having negotiated being a widow over the past 4 years I am ready for life’s next chapter - and perhaps find someone special to enjoy fun times
My free-time is filled with an abundance of friends and family who are precious - enjoying laughter, meals together, theatre, live music and sport I like to keep myself entertained. Not forgetting my faithful companions - the dogs who drag me to the pub most evenings, or the golf club where my attempts to bring my handicap down must work eventually!
Exploring new places both locally and worldwide is a love of mine (most profile photos were taken in India in Oct 2025). Acting in the spur of the moment to visit a long lost haunt brings pleasure.
My career has revolved around HR, thriving on bringing the best out in people is what makes me tick, and this has led me to develop skills in coaching and complementary therapies.
About her ideal match
We will know if it’s right, it’s got to be super special. You will be amazing in every way and a little bit human. We all have flaws!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Esher, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
HR / Recruitment | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district KT10 (Esher) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Pink |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Cricket; Golf; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
