In His Own Words
About him
Since losing my wife in 2022, I have kept busy with a range of activities - walking, golf, U3A, bird watching, book group, community choir, visiting galleries and museums, concerts and recitals, meeting friends for coffee etc.. I find the company of others a boost, as is also listening to music, including Classic FM.
I would like to meet someone who also enjoys getting out to make the most of the opportunities that life offers. There is more to life than keeping busy however. A loving relationship and companionship are at the heart of a happy life. I would like to find someone to share in such a relationship.
About his ideal match
Someone with sensitivity and understanding, who enjoys getting out to make the most of life and who shares at least some of my interests. Someone with whom to share the highs and lows.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Italian; Other | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district HP22 (Aylesbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
67 - 77 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Chess; Cricket; Field Hockey; Football (Soccer); Golf; Rugby; Walking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Very |





