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james81

35 – Chelmsford (Wickford), Essex, England

I work hard and try to play hard (may need a bit of help with the latter though, any volunteers??)

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Chelmsford (Wickford), Essex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
35
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; A fling
Have children:
No
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Financial services
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Atheist

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the United Kingdom
Gender:
Female
Age range:
18 - 39
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I work in the City as an actuarial analyst. I'm studying for professional exams at the moment, it's not easy (especially regarding time management) but I think I'm finally getting there with regards to balancing work/life etc.

I think I've done pretty well to get as far as I have (I came from one of those 'broken homes' politicians like to refer to and blame all the social problems on) but I still want more from life and until I get it I don't want to give up on finding it.

That includes finding someone I can maybe one day build a strong (cooperative) relationship with who gives as much as she takes (had my fair share of high maintenance selfish spoilt girls, only genuine considerate candidates need apply please :-)

I'm not looking for anything heavy right now (well not in the immediate future anyway) if it feels right then hopefully things will develop naturally. I'm not a big fan of stressful/strained relationships (who is!?) and I don't believe in trying to force things to happen, if something's meant to be then things should work out for the better (feel free to call me a hopeless romantic lol).

I feel I have a lot to give someone but I've spent far too long wasting time giving it to those who don't deserve it and holding myself back as a result of it. So, if you think you might just be the girl I've been searching for all these years, it'd be good to hear from you.

J x

To help you decide if you are, here's some personality traits I find particularly attractive in a girl (in no particular order):

Loyal
Intelligent (common sense a must!)
Logical (ok, not illogical)
Healthy (especially non-smoker)
Adventurous / Playful ;-)
Sense of humour
Supportive / able to compromise (obvious you would think, I know, but surprisingly many don't seem to be able to lol)
Forward thinking
Motivated (passionate)

About his ideal match

Loyal
Intelligent (common sense a must!)
Logical (ok, not illogical)
Healthy (especially non-smoker)
Adventurous / Playful ;-)
Sense of humour
Supportive / able to compromise (obvious you would think, I know, but surprisingly many don't seem to be able to lol)
Forward thinking
Motivated (passionate)

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Personality traits
Ruled by:
The heart
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair style:
Short
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae
Books:
Business; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I should have a bed in my office
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Reading:
I read books regularly
Likes & dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Never
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Honesty:
Very