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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Reading, Berkshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
64
Star sign:
Taurus
Height:
5' 8" (173cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Brown
Marital status:
Separated
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; A fling
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Ask me later
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Atheist

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district RG1 (Reading)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
47 - 60
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Before contacting me please look up what the name 'Pajamapaati' means!

I'm looking for new friendships & loves - anything from 1-night stand to someone to share the Four Last Songs with.

I love thinking and playing with words and ideas, and people who do so too.

I'm a 'skeptic' (see Reading Skeptics site for what that means to me); a socialist (I like socialising - ha ha! only serious: if we can't enjoy ourselves while putting the world to rights what sort of "better" world are we going to make?) Not a Spart but when I feel strongly about something I can get off my botty & get involved.

I love music from Mediaeval to minimalist, field and street to stage and concert hall, acoustic, electric, classical, popular, world ... easier to say what I don't like. I've a particular weakness for wierd pieces (check out "Tough Little Surfer" by Truth and Beauty) & odd arrangements e.g. Dub Reggae versions of Dark Side Of The Moon, and Radiohead). And live music e.g. Reading's Hugh Turner, Roger Winslet, La Mort Subite, Jewels and the Jacuzzis, The Manband ...

I like cinema (art-house more than mainstream), books (e.g. Murdoch, McCall Smith, LeGuinn, Moorcock, Pratchett, Pullman, Lodge, Adams, Hornby), Non-fiction: Atheists' Guide, Dawkins, Bad Science, some TV, visual arts ....

For a living I work with my hands, brain and a (not-) White Van, get knackered and don't make enough money at it.

About his ideal match

For a (lurve :-)) partner someone:

- who wants rather than needs a partner, to complement each other rather than filling in the aching voids in each other's miserable existences!

- who enjoys and is stimulated by intelligent questions rather than having all the answers.

- for whom the world and universe is amazing enough as it is without imagining fairies at the bottom of the garden or old men with long beards crawling about above the clouds

- for whom life would not be complete without either science or art, engineering or craft

- for whom sex is just this really nice thing that one can do.
And even nicer when two do it together :-)

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More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
I don't have one
Ruled by:
The head
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Philosophical
Valued qualities:
Friendliness; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness; Tolerance
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
It has its moods
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date activities:
Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Classical; Jazz; World
Books:
Fiction
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Independent
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV habits:
I prefer listening to the radio
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Take drugs:
Not any more
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Current relationship:
I'm in the middle of a divorce
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Politics:
Green