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noctulebat

61 – Tonbridge, Kent, England

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Online: Monday

Modified: 18 July 2021

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Tonbridge, Kent, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
61
Star sign:
Taurus
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Grey
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN10 (Tonbridge)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
50 - 70
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I am passionate about nature, in particular I enjoy gardening, birdwatching and my allotment patch. To relax, I will spend an hour or two at my allotment, or swimming (most days) and occasionally cycling. I started to attend yoga classes recently and I feel the subsequent strengthening of muscles and calming, meditative aspects have been very beneficial. I aim to live life to the full and make the most of every day. I don't take myself too seriously and can see humour in many things (although it is more of a struggle in these current times). Travel is something I would like to do more of, especially revisiting Poland, Australia or South Africa. I visited Iceland with my daughter in 2018 but still did not manage to see the Northern Lights, although I did see dolphins and whales, as compensation. I also spent a few days in the Channel Islands, taking a very slow ferry from Portsmouth over to St Peter's Port in Guernsey. It was lovely exploring the island, which I would love to revisit with a companion.
I am open to forming new friendships where I can relax and chat about everything and nothing, laugh at your jokes and join you in some of your favourite activities. I am comfortable in my own space and appreciate the life I have, but hope that I may still find a close friend, companion and more. Why not message me to start a conversation? It might go in unexpected directions!!
Thank you for reading my profile. I am in the process of updating some photos, as I have used the last few months to trial my "natural grey" and everyone tells me it really suits me!

About her ideal match

Ideally someone who enjoys being outdoors, eating out and going for walks in the countryside or beside the sea, who likes to keep moderately fit and eat healthily, has a number of interests and is comfortable conversing with women. "In touch with your feminine side" is an apt expression to describe you. Providing a sympathetic ear and a shoulder to cry on when needed should not be a chore. Generosity and laughter are also qualities I like in a male companion. Ideally you will be happy to explore new places, taking an interest in the people and culture and trying to integrate rather than be a tourist. I don't like lying around on beaches in the sun so if that is your ideal way to relax on holiday I will probably go off exploring the local villages and take day trips! Travelling to see the Northern Lights is a dream I (still) have, having failed in 2018. I would appreciate a man who has a background in playing music, singing or a love of classical music/going to live concerts (when we are allowed).
It is almost impossible to try and describe the ideal characteristics of a future partner, when we all know it is rarely that prescriptive. If there is a connection when we speak and meet up, then that is the first barrier removed. The rest will follow if there is a mutual interest and hopefully a physical and intellectual attraction.
My deal breakers are smoking and full beards (although light stubble might be tolerated :-) ).

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel
TV habits:
I prefer listening to the radio
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Birdwatching; Cycling; Swimming; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Politics:
Green
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely