In Her Own Words
About her
I am physically fit, enjoy the outdoors and get pleasure from watching wildlife, being near and in the sea.
I care about the environment. I also enjoy my feminine side and happy to don a dress and heels! I have a love and joy of life.
Photos are all from the last 4 years, the main one is May 2023.
To encapsulate, here are the things I would have in my 'Desert Island treasure trove'. Good novels, table at a good restaurant, quality bottle of wine, theatre ticket, walking boots, binoculars, wildlife around me, beach and sea, maybe a sail boat or kayak, an adventure, but most of all a caring and loving partner who enjoys intelligent conversation.
I have travelled reasonably widely, & would love to do more with someone special by my side.
I was a complementary health practitioner, and have recently retired. I am healthy and take no medication.
My 3 adult children are really important and close to me, though distant physically. I have 3 lovely, lively grandchildren and I like to see them when I can, every few months or so.
Friends consider me to be a kind, happy, sincere and lively person, who has a good sense of humour, is empathetic and a good cook!
Other things I love are - walking early morning when the world is fresh and peaceful, spotting glimpses of wildlife & birds, being in the sea, reading a good book and then discussing it. Walking hand in hand with a partner in a beautiful place/by the sea - could you be that person? (in the moonlight?)
About her ideal match
I am looking for that special man who shares my outlook on life and some of my interests. You will hopefully be a caring, kind, considerate and loving person who is able to laugh with me over life's twists and turns. Someone who can hug and be hugged and hopefully have some romance still and some fun. These are important qualities I would look for in a potential partner.
As I have grandchildren and children, I would hope that a potential partner would understand the love and commitment that I have towards visiting them for weekends sometimes and occasionally longer. I would be more than happy to embrace your family too.
Hopefully you will be someone who wants to see the world and all it has to offer us. I am very open to trying new activities with you, or, you may prefer us to do some activities separately, and that is also good with me.
Being able to converse together I consider is really important, whether it is talking about the news of the day, our innermost thoughts and feelings or just laughing about something that has just happened, or having a good conversation about a book or play over a glass of wine. Times of silence and just 'being' is also important.
If any or some of this strikes a chord with you, I would love to hear from you and we can see how it goes from there! I look forward to hearing from you!
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About her
Country of origin: |
Jersey | |
Location: |
Lyndhurst (New Forest), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Dorset; Hampshire; Isle of Wight (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 76 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Sailing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |