In Her Own Words
About her
I'm basically a feeling person with quite a lot of intuition, and worked in the caring professions before retiring. I love reading, classical and other music, art, literature and belong to some groups to share these interests with others. Alhough very friendly, I do need to withdraw sometimes to recoup, but this only means I can be a loyal friend as my resources are then recharged. I love peaceful places, the coast and countryside, animals of all kinds, my pet cat, shortish walks, but also a day in London to visit Galleries or go to a concert. I take a while to get to know people, but when I find someone with kindred values and appreciations, am a loyal and loving friend. To relax, I potter in the garden doing the pleasant jobs, or meditate. I have quite oldfashioned values, but love having fun socially with friends and going out for meals. My spiritual life is important to me, but I do not press this on others and am openminded about others beliefs. I am a kind person, and believe this is one of the most important values in a human being. I can be passionate about injustice and cruelty to the vulnerable. I like learning new things in U3A or WEA groups; sharing ideas and experiences with others is stimulating to me.
What do I dislike? Cruelty, meanness, disrespect, bullying, and manipulation in relationships; too much noise, continued disharmony, being too long in a busy urban space. Although I really enjoy being with a group of friends, I find that a one to one friendship is often more rewarding, and would like to find a manfriend to add to my many women friends, and also some romance - I do love romance! My outlook on life is seeing the goodness in the world, even though there seems to be a great deal of suffering, and hopefully being the best person I can be when my family or friends need me, and also to never give up learning new things and having fun.
About her ideal match
Important qualities I would look for in my ideal match would be respect and a liking for women, kindness, a sense of humour, ease of being, openminded, To make a relationship work, I would need you to not be offended by my need to separate and recoup. Also I would want fidelity and loyalty and honesty, and give these in return. I would like my match to enjoy the arts if possible, to forgive me for not being sporty(!), to be able to be quiet with each other, and love nature and animals. I would love to go out for a meal and just talk and share about our lives. If my match would do the cooking occasionally I would be very happy, as its not my favourite thing. It would be lovely to go on holiday together to places we are both interested in, to explore and relax and enjoy sunshine and warmth, and hopefully swimming in the sea.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Hemel Hempstead (Chipperfield), Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district WD4 (Kings Langley) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
61 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African descent; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sports: |
Dance; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |