HighlandCalm

54 – Pulborough, West Sussex, England

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Online: 28 September 2018

Modified: 26 August 2018

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Pulborough, West Sussex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
54
Star sign:
Scorpio
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
German
Religion:
Atheist

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district RH20 (Pulborough)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
42 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I'm mostly a fairly quiet person - introverted if I'm being completely honest! - but I'm completely comfortable with that (more so than many around me apparently!) I love to have lengthy discussions with people with whom I'm comfortable and on topics I have an opinion about, but I've never been one for "small talk" - my brain just isn't wired for it somehow. I do love to laugh and I think there is no better feeling than moments of crazy humour with people who are on your wavelength.

I'm definitely not the archetypal female - I HATE shopping and phone calls, I am most comfortable with companiable silence, I'm not into girls' nights out or fashion. I can be feminine, sexy, sensual - but that's more about the person that I'm with rather than a state of being.

I've spent most of my young and adult life driving myself relentlessly and it is only in the last 2 years that I have learnt to be more kind to myself and my body. I’ve also largely lost the “black and white” view of youth and appreciate that most things fall into a shade of grey. I like the life I have created, but I'm aware that I'm in danger of my happy self-sufficiency becoming an unhealthy status quo. Increasingly, I miss the fulfilment of sharing moments with someone I value.

I spend a lot of my free time exercising and being physically active - running (always with my dog), cycling, walking/hiking (I’ve done some big climbs such as Mount Kinabalu, Mount Kilimanjaro, WWII Freedom Trails etc); as well as a military bootcamp several times a week. Exercise is a really key part of my existence and, through the ups and downs of life, has been both my sanity and my saviour.

I love travelling and have been lucky to visit many different countries (many on the back end of business). But not having a travelling partner is a constant frustration - friends are either in relationships, don’t want the activity trips I love or are on a different budget. I would really love to meet someone who can fill that gap, in whatever format it ends up taking.

About her ideal match

My ideal match would have to be someone who is in a similar sort of place in life and has much of the same key attitudes about life as me - I'm at a stage in life where I would want a relationship (at whatever level) to enhance my sense of peace and inner calm, not disrupt it.
So, I guess these would be my ideals:
Someone who wants me but doesn't need me
Someone who is fundamentally honest and thoughtful, and with enough self-confidence to allow space within the relationship.
Someone who is willing to take the time to actually know me and with whom I can just be myself
Above all, someone who is kind and empathetic - not just to me, but as a natural state of being.
And - of course - someone who has that X factor that makes my heart jump when I see him (can't pretend that bit isn't important too!)

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
Time
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Quiet; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Yellow
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
A tattoo or two
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Pop / Top 40
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
Crime; Mystery
TV habits:
I prefer listening to the radio
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; The arts
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Boxing; Cycling; Hiking; Running; Scuba diving; Walking; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Greek; Italian
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Gluten-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Exercising
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely