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EmeraldsInTheMist

57 – Banstead, Surrey, England

Wouldn't it be lovely to have a reason to hang the mistletoe . . . ?

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Online: Yesterday

Modified: Sunday

About her

Country of origin:
India
Location:
Banstead, Surrey, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
57
Star sign:
Taurus
Height:
5' 0" (152cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Brown
Marital status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Struggling
Ethnicity:
Other
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in England, United Kingdom
Gender:
Male
Age range:
45 - 65
Star sign:
Virgo; Capricorn
Height:
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Greying; Grey
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

A drinking fountain in Windsor apparently bears the inscription: 'The bright, the brave, the tender, the true'. I guess that neatly sums up what I strive to be and what I look for in others - especially in you! It seems I sometimes puzzle people through being highly intellectual, practical & efficient on the one hand, while equally sensitive, delicate & ethereal on the other. Sophisticated & elegant, yet a true child of Nature - I adore all her precious gifts, especially flowers, and am just as 'at home' in wellingtons as in a ballgown.

The paradoxes continue. Warm & friendly; sparkling & sociable; confident & assertive - apparently! Yet quiet, thoughtful, modest & shy - in my own opinion! I'm definitely independently-minded - conventional where it makes sense to be, contrary where it doesn't - and very discerning as to the difference. I'm sensible & realistic yet, according to others, 'interesting' & 'fascinating' (their words, not mine). I'm romantic (incurably), charming (so I'm told), soft (far more than has ever been good for me), disciplined yet sweet and, while everlastingly girly, certainly no pushover. I like to be treated as a lady yet recognised as a person - a multi-faceted collection of observations, experiences & responses.

I'm highly spiritual and irresistibly drawn to all things esoteric, both a seeker & a teacher of spiritual truths (the latter often incidentally), especially of astrology, which I use & study on a daily basis. I'm artistic & especially love the performing arts, particularly classical music & dance. I love kittens, fairies and all things soft, sweet, subtle & psychic. I'm considerate, compassionate & empathic and hope that I'm seen to be. I have a warm sense of humour, sometimes teasing, but never vulgar or unkind. I love being adored & spoiled and hate being patronised.

About her ideal match

I adore long, rambling walks in the countryside, soaking up the healing balm of Nature, good (healthy) food and stimulating conversation (sometimes brilliant, often sparkling, always wise & kind). Visiting lovely gardens or places of historical & intellectual interest. I adore being on a river or lake but have little experience so someone who's happy to take charge of the oars or be 'captain' would be just great. And I love curling up on the sofa with that oh-so-special someone (on grey days, in front of a roaring fire), watching a good film or reading a good book, perhaps sometimes to each other. I do not have high energy levels so, much as I would love a faster-paced life, I have to content myself with a slower one - and you would need to be happy with that.

As I seek beauty & harmony in all things, I'm looking for someone similar who resonates with the above. You're thoughtful & considerate; patient & kind; loving & oh-so-tender. You dress well & are almost certainly highly educated, at least a graduate. Please note: I am NOT rich so you're someone who's happy to provide the greater abundance there. You love animals, especially cats & dogs, and probably gardening. You are absolutely caring and have far too much sense & respect to do the typical male thing and fall in love - or more accurately, lust & infatuation - quickly. It kills relationships before they've had a chance to start. I've experienced it so often and it's now tiresome beyond words. You want to get to know the person I am. You're looking for that special relationship based on real, loving friendship, sweetened with oodles of romance. And what if that romance remains elusive? Well . . . true friendship alone is a very precious thing.

PS: Main pic was (suddenly!) snapped during a typical crisp, wintry walk on the lovely Surrey hills.

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Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair style:
Long
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Pink
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Seafood; Thai
Music preferences:
Classical; Instrumental; Latin; Opera
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Birdwatching; Dance; Horse Riding; Rowing; Sailing; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm online on weekdays only
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
Movie frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I like animals
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I don't have any family
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
In the country
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful