About her
Country of origin: |
India | |
Location: |
Banstead, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in England, United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Virgo; Capricorn | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In Her Own Words
About her
A drinking fountain in Windsor apparently bears the inscription: 'The bright, the brave, the tender, the true'. I guess that neatly sums up what I strive to be and what I look for in others - especially in you. It seems I sometimes puzzle people through being highly intellectual, practical & efficient on the one hand, while equally sensitive, delicate & ethereal on the other. Sophisticated & elegant, yet a true child of Nature - I adore all her precious gifts, especially flowers, and am just as 'at home' in wellingtons as in a ballgown.
The paradoxes continue. Warm & friendly; sparkling & sociable; confident & assertive (apparently!). Yet quiet, thoughtful, modest & shy (in my opinion!). At an intellectual level, I'm highly independent - accepting of conventional wisdom where it makes sense but very independently-minded where it doesn't! I'm sensible & realistic yet, according to others, 'interesting' & 'fascinating' (their words, not mine). I'm romantic (incurably), charming (so I'm told), soft (far more than has ever been good for me), disciplined, yet sweet. While everlastingly girly, I'm certainly no pushover. I like to be treated as a lady yet recognised as a person - a multi-faceted collection of observations, experiences & responses.
I'm highly spiritual and irresistibly drawn to all things esoteric, both a seeker & a teacher of spiritual truths (the latter often incidentally), especially of astrology, which I use & study on a daily basis. I'm artistic & especially love the performing arts, particularly classical music & dance. I love kittens, fairies and all things soft, sweet, subtle & psychic. I'm considerate, compassionate & empathic and hope that I'm seen to be. I have a warm sense of humour, sometimes teasing, but never vulgar or unkind. I love being adored & spoiled and hate being patronised.
About her ideal match
I adore long, rambling walks in the countryside, soaking up the healing balm of Nature, good (healthy) food and stimulating conversation (sometimes brilliant, often sparkling, always wise & kind). Visiting lovely gardens or places of historical & intellectual interest. I adore being on a river or lake but have little experience so someone who's happy to take charge of the oars or be 'captain' would be just great. And I love curling up on the sofa with that oh-so-special someone (on grey days, in front of a roaring fire), watching a good film or reading a good book, perhaps sometimes to each other. I do not have high energy levels so, much as I would love a faster-paced life, I have to content myself with a slower one - and you would need to be happy with that.
As I seek beauty & harmony in all things, I'm looking for someone similar who resonates with the above. You're thoughtful & considerate; patient & kind; loving & oh-so-tender. You bother to dress decently & are almost certainly highly educated, at least a graduate. Please note: I am NOT rich so you're someone who's happy to provide the greater abundance there. You love animals, especially cats & dogs, and probably gardening. You are absolutely caring and have far too much sense & respect to do the typical male thing and fall immediately in love (or rather, lust/infatuation). It kills relationships before they've had a chance to start. I've experienced it so often & it's now tiresome beyond words. You want to get to know the person I am. You're looking for that special relationship based on real, loving friendship, sweetened with oodles of romance. And if romance remains elusive? Well . . . true friendship alone is a very precious thing and I'd hope you're sincere enough to value that.
PS: Main pic was (suddenly!) snapped during a typical crisp, wintry walk on the lovely Surrey hills.
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More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Pink |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Latin; Opera |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Dance; Horse Riding; Rowing; Sailing; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |
