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BJay

57 – Bromley, London, England

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Modified: 14 July 2021

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Bromley, London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
57
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
Mixed
Home language:
English
Other languages:
German
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Europe
Gender:
Female
Age range:
35 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

It hasn't always been an easy journey, getting to this point, but we learn and are defined by our experiences; I wouldn't change a thing. I am proud of what I have achieved, not least in successfully bringing up two children as effectively a single parent whilst pursuing a challenging career. My friends and those who have worked with me describe me as strong and resilient, empathetic and compassionate; high on the spectrum of "emotional intelligence". I am loyal and am protective about those I care for. I am a good listener. Whilst being a romantic at heart I am first and foremost pragmatic. I am all for pursuing dreams and grand schemes, but only if the rent is also getting paid. I keep fit through cycling, walking, gym and swimming and eat healthily. However, I am very much a believer in looking after the mind too and happy to indulge to that end from time to time! Good food and wine is one of life's real pleasures in my view. I enjoy all kinds of music and am not tied or averse to any particular genres. If it sounds good, I like it! Increasingly though, Classical has been my thing. I also enjoy reading fiction and films and theatre - how I have missed the theatre! I am feeling strong and healthy and good about myself these days and looking to start and embark on new challenges, meet new people and in time meet that special person.

About his ideal match

My ideal match would be self-reliant and her own person. However, she would be kind, understanding and compassionate. She would appreciate and realise the benefit of being in a strong, loyal and mutually supportive relationship. She would have a good sense of humour and appreciation of irony, but would also have a serious and contemplative side. She would enjoy keeping fit and healthy, but also know when it's time to indulge! I hope she would share my love of good food, wine and travel and would not be averse to being swept off her feet from time to time!

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Humour; Kindness
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I have cool side burns
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Fiction; History
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Music; Reading; The arts
Sports:
Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Swimming; Tennis; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work at home
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take drugs:
Never
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited