In His Own Words
About him
I live for, with and on music.
I have a frankly exorbitant musical collection (approx. 100,000 albums) and deep love for this medium: a language that words cannot capture, and that can emote profoundly and permanently. I am constantly looking for meaningful experiences that include music. I believe that in life you can buy a lot with your Mastercard, but there are some moments you simply cannot buy. My passion is creating "adventures", which include travel, architecture, history, culture, science, food & wine, friends, cinema, art, that one cannot pay for.
I am now looking for someone to share them with.
"I hope that someone gets my message in a bottle..."
PS - I shed 16 Kg from the time I first joined this service. Most of my photos are from then.
Since then, I have started to take care of my body a lot more seriously and I have started playing tennis (which I never played until I was 55) and have a lot of fun with it.
Professionally, I am reinventing myself as a consultant to people and organizations in Education to help them implement AI in their daily work. It is a wild ride.
Care to join?
About his ideal match
I am looking for a partner that sees herself as a self-assured woman, ideally with an independent profession and a strong cultural background, possibly multilingual. A "woke" individual, feminist in spirit, but feminine in attitude.
An enormous amount of love for music - any kind of music - is a must. An entrepreneurial ethos, a kindred spirit, warm soul. The capability to feel moved and to share emotion. A fun character. The ability to take life with a slightly self-deprecating sense of humour. Willingness to love.
I am giving all my support to my son's education as a single parent. I shall therefore be a Southwest London resident for the next foreseeable future. Non negotiable. Possibly the only non negotiable factor in my profile.
Deal breakers:
- Lies.
- Violence (even verbal).
- Fanatical/Zealot approach to global issues.
- Antivax convictions.
- Pseudoscience.
- Cats (I am medically allergic to them, sorry. I wish I were not, but I am).
What His Friends Say
Jutta said...
I've known Vittorio for many years, and I can honestly say he lives and breathes the passions he describes.
His love for music isn't just a hobby -- it's a way of life, and he has a gift for sharing it with others in a way that makes you feel uplifted and inspired. But beyond music, what makes him truly special is his curiosity and joy in experiencing the world -- whether through travel, history, architecture, food, or simply a good conversation, he turns everyday moments into little adventures. Life with him never becomes boring.
As a single parent, he shows the same commitment and care to his son as he does to his friends: reliable, generous, and warm-hearted. He has a wonderful sense of humor, is open-minded, and continues to reinvent himself with courage and energy. Anyone who shares his love of music, culture, and life itself would be very lucky to have him as a partner.
About him
Country of origin: |
Italy | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames (New Malden), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Italian; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district KT3 (New Malden) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
31 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
English; Afrikaans; Arabic; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Business; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Internet; Music; Politics |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cycling; Dance; Motorsport; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Table Tennis; Tennis; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
