In Her Own Words
About her
Interesting, bright, sociable, positive, confident, feminine, honest, thoughtful, kind, and witty. Self employed and a good friend. ENFJ-A. Well travelled, studied in Asia. Lived for a time in USA. Favourite place is India. I like log fires, thunderstorms, spectacular sunsets. Fascinated by the world around us, psychology, and the stars. Hobbyist abstract artist.
I run my own niche consultancy practice with clients worldwide. Professional, warm, intelligent, humorous and relaxed. Lover of beauty. Hopeless sapiophile. Replaced gym with running outdoors. Never picked for the school netball team. Grade 2 ice skating (I liked the skirts and white skating boots).
I enjoy spring sunshine and autumn mornings, the British Museum, decent coffee (black), carrot cake with a hint of spice, the warm smell of cinnamon, star anise, art galleries, and airport travel. Good G&T, sharp and sweet pisco sour. Mad Men series, DOAC podcast, singing in the kitchen. Waking up to the sound of the sea, the poems of John O'Donohue, the songs of Leonard Cohen. Grilled halloumi, plump pillows, acrylic paint on canvas, fountain pen and ink, the colour red. Linking arms and holding hands, church architecture, castle ruins, snowy walks, good restaurants, simple pleasures.
I love to walk and chat, enjoying mutual warmth and laughter, taking a few photos, exploring new places, and exchanging ideas along the way.
About her ideal match
Looking for a meaningful connection that could grow into something long-term, with an intelligent, good humoured, calm, confident, professional man. Interesting, fun and funny, values truth and honesty. Glass half full or completely full. Emotionally and physically available. Happy, fit enough, and self aware.
A man who believes the best relationships are between partners who value love, equality, and mutual support on this enjoyable journey of life.
I'm looking for someone I can be completely comfortable with. A man who is balanced and has an optimistic, warm, loving, abundant, empathetic, cheerful personality. Plus a healthy dose of mutual chemistry.
To enjoy cities, museums, galleries, local food, regional wine, soaking up the culture. Walking for miles, guidebook and map (please can you read the map?), sharing stories and laughter, creating memories of the very best kind.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
St Albans (Berkhamsted), Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district HP4 (Berkhamsted) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
53 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Kosher; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; New Age; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Politics |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Running; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
