In Her Own Words
About her
I've been caring for my mother who passed away at 100 + 7 months in October, 2020. I am now starting a new phase of my life. My central passion is as a writer and musician. My work has been published (I'm not just fussing around). My formal training was as a cellist/composer. and now my musical passions are classical and global authentic ethnic music (ethnomusicology, not fusion).Basically I'm an expressive artist of various media and am compulsively creative. That's my central core. I've also been a professional chef, a graphologist and artist. Yes. Done a lot of things, but all of them well. I am far too insecure to keep doing something I don't do well. My sense of humor is deep, overactive and has carried me through many trials still thriving and happy to be here. I derive primal joy from thinking, so a hot date for me is sitting down with a like minded person with the OED spread before us -- maybe a cup of coffee, tea or half a glass of good wine. I could go on, but by this age, everything has a back story and there's no room for this here. I do write wonderful emails.
About her ideal match
Has to be highly intelligent (don't like saying that, but what the heck). Interested in art, reading and culture, not afraid or too repressed to be playful. Here, have some adjectives: creative, articulate, expressive, positive, deep, responsible, kind, compassionate, empathetic, progressive politically (you don't have to shout it but it's a basic mind set), ethical -- very important, loving, cooperative, adventurous attitude toward food, communicative, introspective, perceptive (but not too perceptive. No one wants someone else to know how crazy they are). I do not like to argue or fight, but discussions about anything and everything are the best way to resolve problems. As you can surmise from the above, a sense of humor is going to be vital and an active mind will keep us all alive and aware.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Berkeley, California | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 1" (155cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Kosher | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Berkeley (California) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
68 - 84 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Retail | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Instrumental; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
Mansion with loads of servants |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |