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MichaelJH

40 – St Helens (thatto heath), Merseyside, England

I want to be the reason you smile.

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
St Helens (thatto heath), Merseyside, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
40
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
6' 1" (185cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Transportation
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district WA9 (St. Helens)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
35 - 42
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often
Eye colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I'm a dad of 2 young boys, relatively new to the world of online dating, have tried with other sites but the mind set on most of them is not what I'm looking for.
I'm a hard working man but I do like to unwind with tv or music, I have a varied likes and dislikes for both.
I have a major defining aspect of being a geek, I collect things and have many fandoms as well as running online groups and gaming is also something of a love of mine.
I've had my fair share of issues that have defined me in the past, but now I'm going through a divorce, my outlook of life is one of life is what you make of it. If you don't try you don't get.
I'm a very romantic wine and dine type guy, I like to know somebody and miss the old ways of meeting someone and chatting to them. But as time has changed, so must I.
There is so much more to tell, but the open ended side of the profile should be what draws someone in. It's pointless to lay my life story out for all the world to see, there needs to be intrigue and there needs to be a sense of wonder about someone.
So if you want to know me more, it's easy, just ask me.
One thing I promise to anyone is that I will be honest to a fault, there isn't any point being any other way because I don't believe you can build on a false foundation.

About his ideal match

The woman that I'd be looking for would be hard to describe, my life is a complex one, I've been through good and bad with people and recently find myself wanting more from life than a fling or something trivial. I want to be able to find someone that has shared interests, someone who accepts me for who I am and doesn't want a project. I am looking for someone who understands me and wants to be with the person I am, not what I could be.
I'm independent and would like the same in a partner, but I also want someone who I can just call up and tell about something just because, someone I can spontaneously ask to dinner without there being ulterior motives to do so.
I would also be looking to find someone who's passionate as well, someone who loves cuddling and kissing as much as I do and doesn't object to being held at night.
I would like to find a someone who shares the geek/fandom world I inhabit, or at least would be interested to learn and not be dismissive of it.
To make a relationship work with me is simple. Be honest and loyal, I don't see why people would want to start a relationship based on a lie and why someone would start something with another person if they already have someone else.
The only deal breaker is someone who couldn't understand my 2 boys come first in my life.

What His Friends Say

Stephanie said...

I've known Mike for many years, he's an old friend but we still keep in touch. We go way back to when we were in collage together, he was always the sweet guy buying gifts for girls and he knew how to make a girl swoon. Probably still does. We never dated, but aside from being a lovely man and doting dad, if you were to meet him, it's all in his eyes. I have told him many times to keep his glasses on when talking to people because you can get lost in his eyes and the way he looks at you. Sorry Mike, you asked me to write this truthfully!

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Sarcastic
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Curly; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body hair:
Hairy
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
Several tattoos
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Internet; Photography
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Archery; Camping; Martial arts; Rugby; Walking; Wrestling
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Italian; Pub Grub
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Watching TV or a movie
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Not any more
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm in the middle of a divorce
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Rodent(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely