In His Own Words
About him
I am an extremely optimistic, friendly, outgoing, flexible, industrious guy. I've made my own way in life from childhood. Had some major successes and also fallen over a few times but always picked myself up. I'm very emotionally intelligent, have a great deal of empathy and have help many friends navigate some of their life's difficult issues. I love lazy beach holidays where I can read a book, sip a glass of wine and feel the warm breeze. I have done city breaks all over the world and, in this globalised world, most cities feel very similar now so...it's lazy sun for now. My outlook on life is that it is for living and I want to enjoy every second of it with a sense of warmth, gratitude and appreciation - ideally with a soulmate. I have a big heart and am not afraid to show it.
I love culture - theatre, arts, cinema and reading non-fiction.
About his ideal match
Obviously we have to find each other physically attractive but someone who doesn't take life too seriously. Is emotionally intelligent. Knows what life is about and what matters to them. Is an optimist and smiles often. I am very tactile and a big hugger so that side of things would matter to me. I think that for too long, I held back or was not myself in relationships - too busy trying to look 'cool' or being someone I was not or conforming to what I thought society wanted. I want someone who is not afraid to start dancing at the seaside no matter how ridiculous we look.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Hammersmith & Fulham (Heathrow), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
London - Inner (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Healthy living; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Chess; Cricket; Flying / Gliding; Football (Soccer); Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |