In His Own Words
About him
Deeply kind, optimistic, intellectually and emotionally smart man, 65, seeks partner to multiply the joy of two already-rich lives. Loves friends, doing good, arts, ideas, unpopular music (classical, opera, folk), travel, mountains, singing, surprises, skiing, laughing, life of the intellect, kids' growth, your happiness. Modest, calm, gentle, honest, tender-hearted, loyal. Self-assured, intellectually intense, whimsically unpretentious, professional drive of a national attorney that has changed the world (mostly win/win deals, a couple high profile litigation matters), with relaxed interpersonal style (like purple sneakers). My accountant said I'm a really happy person, my assistant said I'm the sweetest in a good group of lawyers. I think I'm joyful, attentive, affirming, affectionate. Distinguished and silly, fluent listener, empathetic. To share intimate conversation, transparently opening to each other, to hold and be held, to share esoteric humor about complicated stuff and complicated lives, to live day life in the fast-lane, high-end-career world, and come home to knowing and being known, a lifetime of discovering you and the world around us, just-right balance of togetherness and independence.
About his ideal match
You're over-educated, wicked smaht, curious, with a profession you love and that challenges you. Your favorite toy is your brain. You. probably intimidate the hell out of most men. Maybe others have backed off because you're "too complex" or "too cerebral" (Tax lawyer? Electrical engineer? Biotech researcher? Ethics professor?). On the other hand, you have a work-home day-night switch, you listen really well, you're affectionate, ready to love and be loved, easy with benefit of doubt, slow with blame, not too tied to protocol, and ready to commit time to a devoted relationship.
Let’s talk—multi-hour conversations about today, kids, Bach, our career challenges, resolving a conflict or hurt and reassuring love even though a careless remark, how nice you look, fixing the car battery or closet door (engineering education has advantages!), ethical conundrums, support through a crisis, Brahms, holding two contradictory thoughts or interpretations of events, planning tomorrows, sharing similar view of what's fulfilling and Plato's "The Good," what's fun. I hope you'll like my brain first, but I want you to love me for my heart. Let's invest in listening, understanding, and adapting to each other so the relationship is easy.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Boston, Massachusetts, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Connecticut; Delaware; District of Columbia; Massachusetts; New Hampshire; New Jersey; New York; Pennsylvania; Rhode Island; Virginia; Washington, United States | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
54 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 10" (147cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Halaal; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Media; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Card games; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Cycling; Ice Skating; Skiing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
