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BostonBowTie

66 – Boston, Massachusetts, United States

Deeply kind, optimistic, intellectually and emotionally smart man, 65, seeks partner

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Online: 10 March 2024

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In His Own Words

About him

Deeply kind, optimistic, intellectually and emotionally smart man, 65, seeks partner to multiply the joy of two already-rich lives. Loves friends, doing good, arts, ideas, unpopular music (classical, opera, folk), travel, mountains, singing, surprises, skiing, laughing, life of the intellect, kids' growth, your happiness. Modest, calm, gentle, honest, tender-hearted, loyal. Self-assured, intellectually intense, whimsically unpretentious, professional drive of a national attorney that has changed the world (mostly win/win deals, a couple high profile litigation matters), with relaxed interpersonal style (like purple sneakers). My accountant said I'm a really happy person, my assistant said I'm the sweetest in a good group of lawyers. I think I'm joyful, attentive, affirming, affectionate. Distinguished and silly, fluent listener, empathetic. To share intimate conversation, transparently opening to each other, to hold and be held, to share esoteric humor about complicated stuff and complicated lives, to live day life in the fast-lane, high-end-career world, and come home to knowing and being known, a lifetime of discovering you and the world around us, just-right balance of togetherness and independence.

About his ideal match

You're over-educated, wicked smaht, curious, with a profession you love and that challenges you. Your favorite toy is your brain. You. probably intimidate the hell out of most men. Maybe others have backed off because you're "too complex" or "too cerebral" (Tax lawyer? Electrical engineer? Biotech researcher? Ethics professor?). On the other hand, you have a work-home day-night switch, you listen really well, you're affectionate, ready to love and be loved, easy with benefit of doubt, slow with blame, not too tied to protocol, and ready to commit time to a devoted relationship.

Let’s talk—multi-hour conversations about today, kids, Bach, our career challenges, resolving a conflict or hurt and reassuring love even though a careless remark, how nice you look, fixing the car battery or closet door (engineering education has advantages!), ethical conundrums, support through a crisis, Brahms, holding two contradictory thoughts or interpretations of events, planning tomorrows, sharing similar view of what's fulfilling and Plato's "The Good," what's fun. I hope you'll like my brain first, but I want you to love me for my heart. Let's invest in listening, understanding, and adapting to each other so the relationship is easy.

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About him

Country of origin:
United States
Location:
Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
66
Star sign:
Gemini
Height:
5' 8" (173cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
White
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Legal
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Connecticut; Delaware; District of Columbia; Massachusetts; New Hampshire; New Jersey; New York; Pennsylvania; Rhode Island; Virginia; Washington, United States
Gender:
Female
Age range:
54 - 69
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 10" (147cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No; Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Halaal; Hindu diet
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Most days
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Media; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Hairy chest only
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Educational; News
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Documentary; Romance
Interests:
Card games; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Cycling; Ice Skating; Skiing
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Doing voluntary work
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Optimistic
Honesty:
Very