In His Own Words
About him
I've had a very interesting life, 20 years in Hong Kong, and 22 in Australia. Absolutely no regrets. My career was in the commercial sector for many years and latterly in social care (supporting people with Alzheimer's and adults with autism). Late last year I switched from autism to something less stressful - driving. Returned to my roots in 2018, mainly to help my sister care for our Mum (since deceased). I take an interest in people, as everyone has a story. Smiling comes easily to me and I like to think I have a great sense of humour. Very resilient as I've had some challenging episodes but have always remained optimistic. Problems don't last forever. I keep very fit. Good health is more important than anything. Sport has played an important part in my life, but I'm now an armchair fan apart from a very occasional game of golf. Still working as everyone has to have a purpose in life and retirement is not on my agenda. If my body starts feeling the strain, then my fallback is to teach English as a foreign language. I've had a positive effect on many lives through my books and hope to influence many more people. Reading and listening to music are my main pleasures, aside from good food and drink. I enjoy visits to the theatre, cinema, ballet, opera and concerts. The good news is that I like to give full-body massages, but the bad news is that I am not a dog lover, nor am I wealthy.
Seventy is a big number in life, and since I miss the companionship, love, and care that a true relationship brings, I’ve joined this site because I know that there is someone out there who can significantly enhance my life in many ways, not least in sharing hugs and holding hands. I hope to enhance theirs too, because I believe I have a lot to offer. For me, it’s not about being lonely, because I have many friends with whom I keep in touch (even my rugby master at school!) and I am never bored. There is still a lot of living to be done, and the best way to do that is to share it with someone you love, trust and respect.
About his ideal match
Someone well-travelled who takes an interest in people and world affairs. An interest in sport would be welcome but is not essential. Someone who does not have the TV on in the background, is not glued to their phone, and who prefers a good book, music, and enjoying food and drink. Someone still inclined to travel, both nationally and overseas (I've never been to Greece!). Above all, someone with no regrets, has a positive outlook on life, and who loves a hug and holding hands.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Nottingham (Gedling), Nottinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
72 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retail | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NG6 (Nottingham) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
55 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bowls; Cricket; Darts; Football (Soccer); Golf; Rugby; Snooker; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
