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Secondfiddle

76 – Matlock, Derbyshire, England

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Secondfiddle

76 – Matlock, Derbyshire, England

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Online: Tuesday

Modified: 21 May 2024

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In Her Own Words

About her

I live in a beautiful part of the world and have a good social life with lots of friends, but am missing having a special man in my life. I stopped teaching languages some years ago to become a tour manager and I am still working part time, escorting just a few tours abroad to Bruges and Germany from around March to October. I have escaped from Colditz many times! My main hobby is music and I have played 2nd fiddle in an orchestra for many years. I know my place! Otherwise I enjoy reading, learning languages (grappling with Dutch at the moment), going to the cinema and theatre and living in the Peak District, but I am more of a stroller than a hiker! I have just started to learn Tai Chi and live in hope of getting the hang of it one day. I am not very good at promoting myself on paper and very bad at taking selfies. A pet hate. Like body art, Brexit and wokeness. I'm much better at getting to know someone face to face, so please contact me for a message or a chat, perhaps followed up by a meeting. Looking forward to hearing from you.

About her ideal match

Ideally he would be kind, sensitive, tolerant, intelligent, tactile, loving and easy to talk to, with a few imperfections and foibles thrown in to convince me that he's human and interesting! Perfection would be very dull! In the first instance, I am looking for friendship, but would be very happy for it to develop into a more long term relationship. He should have a sense of humour of course, and not take himself too seriously! Looks are relatively unimportant. I have no preconceptions. Ideally I would prefer someone living relatively close to me, but would be prepared to go further for the right man. I would like us to be flexible, have our own space, see each other whenever we can and keep in contact when we're apart. Go with the flow and see what happens!

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Matlock, Derbyshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
76
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Leisure / Tourism
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
German
Religion:
Agnostic

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district DE4 (Matlock)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
74 - 80
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 1" (186cm)
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Classical; Folk; Opera
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Crime; Fiction; History; Romance; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Music Channels; News; Talk shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Music; Reading; The arts
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Martial arts; Swimming
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Diabetic
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I don't have any family
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Very