In Her Own Words
About her
I’m happy, bubbly and enjoy a laugh, love music (very wide ranging taste), reading, theatre, walking and wildlife but equally content with a warm fire and a good film.
I’m someone who listens, cares deeply, and believes it’s not too late to try something new. After some years focused on family, I’m now making space for connection, laughter, and shared experiences finding joy in life’s little moments.
2026 is a new chapter and I’m excited to start writing it.
About her ideal match
I’m looking for a healthy connection with mutual respect, trust, and open communication, where I feel safe, supported, and can be myself. Openess & honesty so feelings can be expressed without judgment. For someone who understands being an individual is just as important as time together. I’d like to find someone who shares my interests and has a good sense of humour, who thinks it’s still ok to want to get back on a horse after 40yrs or climb trees in your 50s!
Looking for someone local (within 40 miles)
Sorry guys facial hair may really suit you but it’s a big no for me.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Whitby, Yorkshire - North, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TS13 (Saltburn-by-the-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi; Soap operas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Reading; Sewing |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Horse Riding; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Rodent(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
