In His Own Words
About him
"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of [means], must be in want of a [lady with whom to have adventures]"
A kind, happy, and fun gent, who's emotionally and economically secure, seeks a friendship that grows into something fabulous, as I believe life is at its best when shared.
"I wish, as well as everybody else, to be perfectly happy; but, like everybody else, it must be in my own way."
"There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature."
What I like:-
"To be fond of dancing was a certain step towards falling in love"
"My idea of good company...is the company of clever, well-informed people, who have a great deal of conversation"
"There is no enjoyment like reading! ....When I have a house of my own, I shall be miserable if I have not an excellent library."
About his ideal match
"There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time."
There is no ideal match, as we are all imperfect.
Perhaps this is why we are draw to be with others so our flawed pieces may come together to create a beautiful joined up whole.
I hope you know yourself, feel comfortable with who you are, and are enjoying life. I hope you are someone who is as happy hiking in the hills, as they are sitting outside Bar Italian sharing a tiramisu at 2am watching the world go by. And I hope love to dance, as much as you enjoy reading by an open fire.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Tonbridge (Tunbridge Wells), Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district TN4 (Tunbridge Wells) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
41 - 56 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Cricket; Cycling; Dance; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Martial arts; Rugby; Running; Skiing; Surfing; Triathlon; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
