In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a warm, friendly and loyal person who genuinely enjoys being with people. Family and friends are at the heart of my life, and I value kindness, laughter, honesty and the simple pleasure of good company.
By nature, I’m optimistic, curious and enthusiastic about life. I believe there is still so much to enjoy, discover and experience, and I’m keen to stay fit, healthy and active so I can make the most of every opportunity. Whether it’s a long country walk, exploring somewhere new, a trip to the theatre, or simply sharing a relaxed evening together, I’m happiest when I’m making memories with people I care about.
Travel is a real passion of mine. I love discovering different places and cultures, and I have a particular soft spot for France. Spending time in the South of France, enjoying sunshine, beautiful scenery, wonderful food and a slower pace of life, is one of my favourite things. Equally, I enjoy finding new destinations and sharing adventures, whether close to home or further afield.
I’m also a bit of a car enthusiast and love nothing more than taking my convertible out for a drive on a sunny day, especially through the countryside with the roof down and nowhere particular to be.
Life feels richer when it is shared. I’m fortunate to have a lovely family, good friends and a wonderful golden retriever who keeps me active and smiling. Now I’d love to meet someone special to share the next chapter with—someone who enjoys companionship, conversation, laughter, travel and making the most of all that life has to offer.
And just so there’s no confusion, all of my photos were taken in 2025 and 2026.
About her ideal match
My ideal match will be someone who is also optimistic and enthusiastic about the future and new adventures. They will be warm and friendly, understanding, energetic and have a good sense of humour. I’d like to do lots of my favourite things with them - including walks and keeping fit, spending time in France, other travel and holidays, theatre, playing games, times with friends and family, as well as quiet times where we can get to know each other better - but mainly have some fun and be true companions! I hope they will like my lovely golden retriever.
Honesty and personal respect are really important to me, so if your profile is not honest (eg your age), please don’t bother to add me to your favourites or send me a message.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Esher (Leatherhead), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district KT22 (Leatherhead) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 77 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
French | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Motoring; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Dance; Hiking; Motorsport; Snorkeling; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |






