In Her Own Words
About her
I have been widowed for 5 years and I miss male company and attention. I am affectionate, tactile, supportive and loyal.
I don't have a university degree, but should have taken one and still intend to do so. I am intelligent and cultured but with a sense of humour and fun. I think it is a sin to waste a day of my life. Life is a gift that should be savoured to the full.
I am told that I look younger than my age and I certainly feel that I have a lot of life left in me. I still have many unfulfilled ambitions. I should like to get a degree, as I said, write a book or two (I am told I am very good at writing), paint a few pictures and travel even more than I have done already. I love to visit other countries and cultures.
I am a solo singer and love all sorts of music, but especially classical, musicals and 60s pop (my youth!). I have been a stage performer for many years, taking the lead in many musicals and operettas. I am very interested in history and love visiting historical and archaelogical sites and museums.
I also enjoy gardening, genealogical research and cryptic crosswords. I have been heavily involved in service organisations (Rotary and Inner Wheel) for many years and am secretary of a charity which gives aid to the third world.
My family is very important to me and I spend a lot of time with my grandchildren.
I am sociable, enjoy dancing and conversation and intellectual discussion. I have a wide circle of friends, who are also important to me.
I take care of myself, eat healthily, try to keep slim and exercise as much as I can. I enjoy walking and rambling, and am equally happy in a pair of walking boots and casual clothes or dressed up to the nines for a special occasion. I like going to the cinema and to the theatre. I enjoy reading but never seem to have time to do so.
I can manage without a man in my life, but it's not the same, is it?
About her ideal match
Ideally I should like someone with an attractive face and figure but attraction is unpredictable and this may turn out not to be important. He should have a nice smile and be kind and caring but not possessive. In fact it would be good if he were as independent as me. It is important that he shares a number of my interests or we shall have no compatible activities I should like him to have views and opinions but respect mine, even if they are different from his. He should enjoy a social life and meeting people. I am not a sport fan but am used to tolerating it! He should be intelligent and cultured but have a sense of humour and fun. He should be at least reasonably physically fit, so that we can walk and travel easily. He should be tactile and have a sense of romance. I like to be admired and to be made to feel special but I still like a man to be a man!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bishops Stortford (Bishop's Stortford), Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CM23 (Bishop's Stortford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
60 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Cycling; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
