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helen4460

63 – Poole (Parkstone), Dorset, England

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In Her Own Words

About her

Marriage and dating turned out to not be "til death us do part" Has that put me off the other sex?? Not n the slightest!
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I'm a 53 year old mum of 3 grown up graduate kids, 2 of whom currently live with me though I hardly ever see them due to their jobs.
My days are positive and sunny always, I spent too many years getting stressed and down about stuff, so now I try to enjoy everything!
I'm an instrumental teacher/performer on sax, clarinet and flute and I am musical director of a swing band and a concert band.
I get immense pleasure from my friends and my children, they give me energy and help me keep my sense of perspective.
Im probably a bit too reliable and organised for my own good
Despite having a career, my proudest achievment is being a mum, I think Ive done a good job.
Life is an awfully big adventure and I'm enjoying my 50's enormously, I do wish I still had the energy that I had when I was 27, then I could fit more into every day.
There's still so much I want to do!
I would like to meet someone who lets me be independent and individual whilst celebrating me as a woman. I do like to be girly sometimes, but Im not naturally a girly kind of girl,
I loathe possessveness and lack of trust but I love a bit of romance,giving and receiving.
Im after a relationship that flows easily, where two people can celebrate their individuality and when together the result is bigger than the sum of the parts, where respect and genuine interest and care for the other person is top of the agenda.
I'm not after the "happy ever after", I'd just lke to meet someone who would like me to be with them on their adventure through life as much as I would like them to join me on mine.
A kind, caring, grown up (without being stodgy and boring),who is in touch with their inner child and sees fun in life.
Someone who is willng to be the leader and take charge when appropriate and allow me to do the same.
Someone who believes in , trusts and enjoys me for who I am

About her ideal match

someone who sees me and allows me to be me and love me for me . Independence combined with a loving togetherness

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Poole (Parkstone), Dorset, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
63
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue-Green
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Ask me later
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
Ask me later
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district BH12 (Poole)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
48 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Average; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Separated; Divorced
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Regularly
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism
Income:
Solvent; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Celibacy; Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; World
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Self-help
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Woodwork; Writing poetry
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Greek; Italian; Seafood; Thai
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work at home
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Erotica; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
On a beach
Feelings about using Classic FM Romance:
Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely